Even though we love our pets, there are times it may seem like their behavior can be challenging. Chewing on shoes and/or furniture, barking frequently, jumping on people when they walk in the door, licking constantly, chasing their tail, having the zoomies, and the list can go on and on. They can be like an energetic zombie. But you love your pet and want the best for them and you. So, how do you deal with obsessive behavior without damaging the communication between you and your furry friend?
First you need to find out why they are exhibiting this behavior. It could be for a variety of reasons, but nobody knows your pet better than you do. If you are not sure, contact an animal communicator to help find out what is bothering them. When you do pay close attention to the subtle signs of some form of behavior change, it can tell you a lot and help you both get relief. The main reasons for obsessive behavior are:
Stress and Anxiety: As with you, your pets can experience stress. When they have a change in their routine, having separation anxiety when you leave, or environmental triggers that can lead to stress as well, such as a new pet, or family member coming into the fold.
Boredom: One of the biggest behavior issues that arise is simply because they are bored. Many larger breeds need more exercise and some of your smaller pets may need more mental stimulation.
Health Issues: Many times, the issues may be attributed to underlying health conditions—such as allergies, skin irritations, or gastrointestinal problems that can drive your pet to lick and/or chew excessively. We may mistakenly assume some behaviors are simply growth stages that may signal underlying health needs or energy imbalances.
Emotional Connection: Whether you know this or not, your pets often mirror your emotions. Your anxiety, stress, depression, fear, or pain soon becomes the same for your pet.
Past Trauma or Bad Memory: Your pet may still be processing or reliving a past trauma or bad experience they cannot release on their own.
Of course, the key is paying attention to your pets and becoming a detective of sorts.
When did the behavior begin?
Was it when they started eating a certain type of food?
Did you move into a new home within the last year?
Are they a new shelter pet that may possibly be hanging onto past experiences?
Did a spouse or significant other leave recently?
Did you add a new pet to your furry family?
Is there a new person in the neighborhood or new furry friend that’s causing them problems?
Is their diet not the best and throwing off their gut balance?
As you can see, when you look back you may start to find the clues you need to get them past these behaviors and feeling calmer and less stressed. Here are a few tips to help you find the right path to good health and better behavior for your pet.
Change Environment: Bring in interactive toys or puzzle feeders to engage your pet’s mind. Possibly find a quiet place with their favorite bed, blanket, and toy to help them stay calm for those pets who may exhibit high anxiety. Even playing soothing music may help.
Positive Reinforcement: When you catch your pet obsessing gently re-direct their attention with a toy or engage in play. Always celebrate those moments when they are calm and not obsessing.
Holistic Approach: You may want to consider Energy Medicine or Animal Communication to help discover and then balance your pet’s energy flow, and/or use possible herbal remedies. Even massage can help your pet relax and become less agitated.
Change Your Emotional State: Maybe instead of changing your pet’s behavior you may want to take some time to change your personal mindset and energy. When you stay calm and centered it truly benefits not only you but your pet as well. Meditate, take time to be still, do some breathing exercises, whatever it takes to help you stay in a place of calm.
Exercise: Sometimes the best way to tame a restless soul is with exercise. Go for a walk with your pet or run with them in the backyard.
Consult With Your Vet: Of course, when all else fails it may be best to take them to the vet as they may be exhibiting an underlying health issue or condition.
Just remember that when your pet is exhibiting obsessive behavior it’s always best to stay calm, pay attention, and be there for them as they are for you. Sometimes all they need from you is to be snuggled and loved.
Here’s to your pet’s health.
Carolyn Osborn
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