How Kindness Can Help Us Get Past Chaos

“When doubt and fear enter our world, chaos follows.”

As many of you may know, fear is based on False Evidence Appearing Real, which is why when we believe in these fears chaos follows because we are believing in something that isn’t real. We are putting stock into something that hasn’t even been proven to be real. When we do this, we go down the FEAR rabbit hole and only see what is not real, even when we have been given facts to refute the false evidence, we tend to put more stock into the lie instead of the truth. 

It's human nature to worry and be fearful as our mind/ego works to protect us. But when we have been given false info how can we make sound life decisions when we are basing everything on falsehoods? We can’t. But we can overcome the chaos with two things:

  1. Do our homework and figure out what is fact and what are lies.

  2. Use and recognize kindness.

When we use kindness, chaos cannot exist as it opposes what chaos stands for.

Chaos: complete confusion and disorder: a state in which behavior and events are not controlled by anything.

Kind: a group united by common traits or interests

Kindness: the quality or state of being kind 

When we bring kindness into the world it makes it difficult to be refuted. 

Let me explain: If someone insults you and you respond with, “and you have a wonderful day as well.” What can they say? Anytime someone is mean or throws insults they want a response similar to theirs. They want you to respond with the same heat. However, when you don’t comply and put forth kind words and a smile, it diffuses the situation, thus stopping the chaos that may exist at that time.

Yes, it’s human nature to allow our emotions to get the best of us. But when we respond with kindness it causes those in the heat of the moment to be off-balance. They don’t know how to respond because it’s not what’s expected. Granted, many of us allowed the past year’s chaos to become our reality. We had the choice to not be a part of the rhetoric or conversation, and those who made this choice were much happier for it. 

The next time chaos ensues, take the high road and respond with kindness. I will bet it will calm the situation and this chaos will simply move on to the next person willing to take the bait.

If you are finding it difficult to do this, invest in some energy medicine sessions to clear out the resistance and fear so you can naturally ooze kindness to everyone!

Show more kindness to the world and watch how the chaos in our world starts to dissipate.

Here’s to kindness and the strength it brings to unite us.

Carolyn Osborn

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