Let’s face it, we all want to be liked and accepted. But many of us have become less than perfect conversationalists. When we start a conversation what are the first things we say? For most, we can’t think of anything to say so we talk about ourselves. After all, we know all about that subject. But what if we could ask some great questions to start a stimulating conversation?
According to an article from INC here are a few of the 12 Brilliant Questions That Will Make People Remember You and Like You More in 2021.
What was the silver lining for you this past year?
What part of your job do you love and would like more of?
How do you think we could have handled today’s issues if it happened 10 or 20 years earlier?
What’s the best thing you purchased this year to work remotely?
What’s the most interesting book you’ve read that you might not have otherwise?
What worried you the most this last year but didn’t end up being a problem at all?
What were you doing exactly one week or month ago?
What was your first job and how did you get it?
What would 15 minutes of fame look like for you?
Did you have a go-to Zoom outfit?
Granted this is to get the conversation started, and some of the above are paraphrased, but you get the idea. Any one of us can become a great conversationalist, all we have to do is get comfortable with talking. Some of us have a knack for talking while others maybe not.
Often, something we can’t quite identify may feel like it’s blocking our free flow of energy, and we don’t feel ready to share ideas or thoughts easily in a social setting. Learning how to benefit from Energy Medicine, with some guidance and simple practice, (which I support clients to gain) can bring the ease you seek, and let you focus on what’s next:
Whether you are an introvert — or an extrovert— you can learn from the people in the room.
Watch those whom people gather around to listen to.
What is capturing their attention? The stories, how they tell them, or how they make them feel.
Pay attention to their body language. Do they lean in and seem interested or make the person they are speaking with feel like they are the only ones in the room?
When we truly listen and show genuine interest in what they are saying is when we truly are remembered. Why? Because all anyone wants is to be heard. They’ll so appreciate your giving them the rare gift!
Now you can use the questions above or simply sit back and listen intently. Either way, you will be the one to be remembered.
Here’s to being heard.
Carolyn Osborn
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P.S. Our newest program Healing and the New Normal is designed to support you being able to move forward during these stressful times.
You can also gain knowledge about how energy medicine and intuitive messages can help us recognize and adjust to changes that are affecting us, as well as our animals. Even when we may not recognize it— there are messages your dogs, cats, horses and other pets wish they could tell you directly—as they seek to give you loving help. Chiron Energy Medicine offers several options.
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