How Life Lessons Can Teach us to be Accepting and Get Exactly What We Want

Life is filled with many, many lessons. But what we may see are

  • hardships

  • frustrations

  • hurt

  • fear

  • and resignation

When challenges come our way, we tend to start the pity party. We feel like life is against us and how we can’t get what we want no matter how hard we try. But this is a falsehood based on belief systems. These belief systems have followed us around since the day we were old enough to talk. We’ve been told:

“No, don’t touch that.”

“No, don’t go in there.”

“No, you can’t do that.”

Then we move into puberty and hear different beliefs:

“You’re not as pretty as she is.”

“You can’t play football like he can.”

“You’re not smart enough to get into college.”

“You’re not thin enough to get into those pants.”

Then we get into adulthood and these beliefs become our reality. Even though we have aspirations; these beliefs start to creep in causing havoc on the road to our dreams.

We’ve been filled with what we can’t do instead of what we can do. Even when we are given step-by-step instructions to get to our dreams, these beliefs hold us back. We begin to come up with one excuse after another why it will never come true. Granted, life continues to throw us lesson after lesson, yet many of us simply chalk it up to another reason why we can’t get what we want. Even when life is giving us directions on how to get there.

These beliefs are so ingrained in many of us, we simply don’t see them as lessons or even answers just nuisances and hard aches. But if we put our beliefs aside, we would see how life has put forth the answers for us to see every time. We are simply looking through the dirty glasses of past lies.

With all these lies we’ve been told; how do we tap into the life lessons put in front of us to get exactly what we want?

  1. You have to work on unraveling these lies, by not believing in them or giving them any merit and replacing them with new truths. Words of love, forgiveness, and self-worth. And you can get energy medicine sessions to clear and release the old beliefs.

  2. You must start practicing specific mantras to call forth the energy of what you want. For example, We have sold our home to the perfect buyer under the perfect conditions giving us all the funds we need to buy our new dream house.

  3. Be open to seeing each life challenge as a lesson to be learned. Lessions often contain gifts that reveal themselves later.

  4. Know that when you ask, the universe listens and supplies you with your wish. Therefore, you want to be very specific.

  5. Believe in the universal system.

Many of you may be reading this and say, “Yeah right. Just ask and the universe will give me my wish? What’s the catch?” There’s only one, YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE IN THE UNIVERSAL SYSTEM.

Think back to a day when everything was going your way. The bus was on time, you got to work on time, you had enough money in your pocket for lunch, your long-time friend called to give you great news…...you get the picture. Didn’t it feel great? Didn’t you find yourself saying, “What a great day. Nothing can go wrong for me today.” And then what happened? Nothing, you had a great day. It all went your way. Why? Because once you got caught up in receiving all the great things that day brought you wanted more, and you got more. Because deep down inside you believed in this day as a winner of a day.

It's that simple. Do you have to deal with some hurt and disappointment along the way? Absolutely, because without the bad the good wouldn’t exist. You wouldn’t know the difference. It would simply be the same thing over and over. But life isn’t like this. It gives us hundreds and thousands of opportunities every single day, all we must do is be open to see them.

Let me explain: You want a house payment of $600 a month and have been doing your mantras every day asking for this. Then when the bank comes back and only gives you a $65,000 loan to go towards your $455,000 home all you see is that it won’t be enough money. But you asked the universe for a $600 a month payment and this is what you got.

This is why you have to be very specific. So, in this case, you may want to change your mantra to read: We have sold our current home giving us all the money we need to pay the majority of our new home making our monthly payment no more than $600. (Very important to state your mantra as it has already happened.)

As you can see, this will take some practice and retooling as you work on your asks.

However, the more you believe in the process and do the mantras the more you will see them come true. Along the way, you keep your eyes open to the life lessons that come your way. It also helps to get some energy medicine sessions to clear old beliefs and patterns thus supporting what you want to create. You want to be clear and precise in your manifesting.

Remember it’s up to you, and let those old lies fade away into the new truths you want in your life.

Here’s to a wonderful life.

Carolyn Osborn

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